Commemoration

One hundred years ago, on August 22, 1910, Tomaso, who had already been to America several times, arrived at last to stay. This time, he brought with him from Italy his wife, Antonetta, and their three children, Concetta, Antonio, and Raffaele. Two more daughters were born later, in the United States, one of them only months after the family had arrived. Tomaso had waited until he had a good position in the United States and could provide for his family here; he had already become a citizen. He was an artisan, a craftsman who created the decorative stone pieces that adorned the outsides of great buildings.

Today, I attended a lunch gathering that included Constance's two remaining children, Tommy and Bobby, Tony's two children, Tom and Marie, and the two of Ralph's children who still live in New Jersey, Tommy and Ralphie. Five more cousins are scattered around the country, and couldn't attend. A variety of spouses and children and grandchildren were there as well. (Only three Toms were present, although I think there are more here and there, and only one Tony.)

This was so much fun. These are all such happy, friendly people; they love to laugh and they love each other. The cousins all grew up within a block of each other, from the oldest Tommy (who is known in the family as "Big" since he's the biggest Tommy) to the youngest, who wasn't there today. They were telling funny stories about their grandparents, and all their parents. Ralphie brought a marble figurine that his father had made years ago, to show everyone. Tony worked in silver; one of his grandsons carries a ring he made with his initials on it to this day. All of them were artists and craftsmen, good with their hands, and everyone is educated.

As my father-in-law once commented about his father, it's a good thing he didn't miss the boat. What wonderful lives they have made for themselves here, following their parents' and grandparents' examples.

No political motive here. It was just a really nice day, and I was lucky to be a part of it.